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Monday, April 28, 2014
Thursday, April 24, 2014
U is for Unlucky : A Short Story
Every one
told Sita that she was unlucky.
Hadn't she killed her mother right on the day of her birth?
Wasn't it because of the fault
in her stars that her father took his own life two days before her third
birthday?
By the time
she passed high school, the blame for the death of two of her closest friends in
a drowning incident and the car accident that crippled her aunt who was her
guardian, had also been added to long list of woes.
Her
education had ended at eighteen when her uncle believing in all the rumors abound,
refused to waste money on a no-good cause. Her dreams of becoming a teacher had
died an early death that day.
At the age
of twenty, a nomad scrap-dealer Raghu, fell in love with her and her uncle
quickly married her off to him. After all, none of the youth in their village
wanted a bad omen entering their lives.
On the day
of their marriage, when a teary-eyed Sita confessed to Raghu, that he had unknowingly
damaged his luck by marrying her, he laughed it off good-humouredly.
“Do you know
that I make a fortune out of what other people consider useless? They don’t
know the value of things they throw away as waste. In my eyes, they are gold.
No one is ever born unlucky Sita. Understand that. Luck is not a matter of
chance, it is a matter of thoughts and choice. You are my love and my lucky
charm from today. Remember that.”
Raghu
treated her like a queen and Sita became happier day after day.
Raghu
enrolled her in the nearby college for degree and Sita started giving tuition
to kids in the neighborhood to add to their earnings. She quickly became the
favorite with all the students.
Just how
much her life had changed became evident to Sita when Priya, her student and
neighbour came one night to her house.
“Sita Aunty,
Tomorrow is my mathematics board exam. First thing in the morning, I want to
see your face. You are my lucky charm.”
“No Priya…See
your mothers face and go,”repled Sita still unsure of her luck.
“No Aunty.Believe
me. Whenever I behold you, my day passes charmingly. I saw you yesterday and my
science paper was just awesome. I feared it the most you know,” declared Priya.
“Sita,
Listen to her. You are a lucky charm indeed. See how much Raghu prospered and
how happy he is now after you came into his life.” It was Priya’s mom.
Luck was indeed just a matter of thought and choices as Raghu said. She never would say or
believe she was unlucky again.
Years later, when her daughter-in-law passed
away after childbirth, she took the child and embraced it lovingly, ready to
confront anyone who wanted to brand the child as being unlucky.
A smiling Raghu, her two daughters and son soon
came in to watch her expertly calming down the wailing child.
This story is a part of Blogging from A-Z April Challenge.
The Blogging from A to Z April Challenge was first held in 2010. The challenge is that we have to post every day of April, except on the four Sundays. April 1st is a theme with letter A, 2nd with letter B and so on till April 30th which will be Z themed. My theme is #Learning Everyday, I post about new random things every day.
Wednesday, April 23, 2014
T is for Thinking Straight: A Short Story
How long? How
many hours, how many days more was this turmoil going to last?
I snap out
of my reverie when my phone pings with another message. There it was, proof
that my dilemma was never going to end, a message from Manav.
Manav always
drove me crazy. One day, he will be the sweetest person I had ever seen and the
next day, he will be back being the grouchy snob who never failed to irritate
me.
We go back a
long way- Manav and me. We had joined this company on the same day five years
ago. Being on the same daily- grind brought us closer and we gloriously bitched
about our common enemies over cups of coffee during weekends.
I do not
know when but soon his presence had become an addiction I could not rid of.
Each passing day deepened my infatuation. I eagerly awaited to see the smile on his face
when we met accidentally or over coffee.
That weekend
when I rushed to our usual café with an eager heart racing at an abnormal pace,
I had decided to open up about how I really felt.
“Reshmi, I
have a surprise for you,” Manav had said immediately after we sat down for
coffee. The surprise had turned out to be an arranged marriage that he had
agreed to. The photo of the pretty girl on his phone taunted me. I laughed
merrily teasing him about his impending marriage even as my heart broke
silently into a thousand pieces.
My only
solace was that my secret had remained.
Soon after
his marriage, a project in New York for which he was selected had relieved me
from the pain of beholding him every day.
Three years
and a disastrous marriage later, Manav have come back to me again, but at the
most inappropriate time.
I am engaged
to Kishore, who is heads over heels in love with me. Kishore had made me fall
in love with him by his ardent devotion. His parents too made me feel like one
of their own.
A week ago,
Manav declared that he loved me, had always loved me but had succumbed to
parental pressure and agreed to a marriage of their liking. I had confessed to
him then about my engagement with Kishore.
Ever since
that day, my inbox is flooded
with his sob stories, requests and from yesterday threats that he will end his
life.
Manav was my
first love, but now he has come back to me with an emotional baggage he refuses
to dispose. Every now and then, he became moody and started comparing me with
Sneha his ex-wife. But first loves were hard to be forgotten.
Do I need
this? How am I going to deal with this?
My phone
buzzed again with an incoming mail. It was a newsletter that I had
subscribed to from a relationship website. It had a quote that gave an answer
to my queries.
I knew it
was time to think straight.
This story is a part of Blogging from A-Z April Challenge.
The Blogging from A to Z April Challenge was first held in 2010. The challenge is that we have to post every day of April, except on the four Sundays. April 1st is a theme with letter A, 2nd with letter B and so on till April 30th which will be Z themed. My theme is #Learning Everyday, I post about new random things every day.
Tuesday, April 22, 2014
S for Someone Like You
Our sweetest songs are those that tell of
saddest thought, writes the poet Shelly in the poem an Ode to a Skylark.
The song Someone like You, by UK Singer and Songwriter,
Adele proves it. I loved the song when I first heard it and I still love it.
The song , the last one written for her second album 21,
belongs to the soul genre of pope songs which speaks about unrequited love and
broken relationships.
Adele revealed that she was struggling emotionally when she
composed it:
"When I was writing it I was feeling pretty miserable
and pretty lonely, which I guess kind of contradicts 'Rolling in the Deep'.
Whereas that was about me saying, 'I'm going to be fine without you', this is
me on my knees really. She
discussed further the inspiration of the song: "I can imagine being about
40 and looking for him again, only to turn up and find that he's settled with a
beautiful wife and beautiful kids and he's completely happy... and I'm still on
my own. The song's about that and I'm scared at the thought of that.”
Listen to it. Click for the lyrics HERE.
This post is a part of Blogging from A-Z April Challenge.
The Blogging from A to Z April Challenge was first held in 2010. The challenge is that we have to post every day of April, except on the four Sundays. April 1st is a theme with letter A, 2nd with letter B and so on till April 30th which will be Z themed. My theme is #Learning Everyday, I post about new random things every day.
Monday, April 21, 2014
R is for Rainbow
Rainbows fascinated me, when I was
a child. Being bright, elusive and ethereal, they made me believe in the
heavens above. The thought that every storm had a rainbow following it, made me
face the storms with courage. Their
presence was a reassurance that there was hope ahead.
While growing up books told me, that
rainbows had a strong presence in mythology as well.
Image Source |
The
above painting titled Noah's Thanksoffering (c.1803)
by Joseph
Anton Koch depicts how after Noah builds an altar to the Lord after being delivered from the
Flood, God sends the rainbow as a sign of his covenant.
As the flood had killed all other living beings, the rainbow came to symbolize God's promise that he would never send another flood to destroy all of the earth and that never again would all living things be killed in the waters of a flood.
In Greek mythology, the daughter of first-generation gods
Electra and Thaumas, Iris dresses in rainbow colors. As messenger of
the gods, she flies on golden wings. The rainbow was a mode of transportation
for Iris, who proves to be as elusive and unpredictable (yet unforgettable) as
the rainbow itself. Charming!!
Western mythology refers to Bifrost, a rainbow bridge between
earth and heaven that is attainable to only the good or virtuous, such as
warriors and royalty. Royal!!
In fairy tales, leprechauns buried pots of gold at the end
of a rainbow. Enticing!!
Later on science came in and took the magic out of rainbows.
It told me that a rainbow is
just an optical and meteorological phenomenon that is caused by both reflection and refraction of light in water droplets in Earth's
atmosphere, resulting in a spectrum of light appearing in the sky. Boring!!
Whatever.. I prefer to believe that a rainbow is a sign of hope. I prefer to hope that somewhere over the rainbow, bluebirds fly,and the dreams that I dream of really do come true.
By the way, do you know that we have a rainbow within us?!! Check this post to know more about this.
By the way, do you know that we have a rainbow within us?!! Check this post to know more about this.
Leaving you to ponder over this quote...
This post is a part of Blogging from A-Z April Challenge.
The Blogging from A to Z April Challenge was first held in 2010. The challenge is that we have to post every day of April, except on the four Sundays. April 1st is a theme with letter A, 2nd with letter B and so on till April 30th which will be Z themed. My theme is #Learning Everyday, I post about new random things every day.
Saturday, April 19, 2014
Q is for Que Sera Sera
Today’s letter is Q.
Doris day immediately began singing Que Sera Sera when I
thought what for Q.
Que Sera Sera literally means whatever will be, will be.
It is a philosophy quite close to my heart.
Listen to this wonderful song.
In this song, the singer talks about her childhood, youth and motherhood to explain just how this attitude had worked wonders in her life.
When she was a little girl, she had asked mother whether she will grow up to become a rich and pretty girl. Her mother chides her telling future is not for anyone to foretell and whatever will be, will be…Que Sera Sera.
Her lover in her youth echoes the same thoughts and she comes to understand the importance of living in the moment, without any worries about future. He assures Que Sera Sera.
Now that she has become a mother, she teaches the same to her kids when they have the same queries that she had in her childhood.
This song from the movie, The man who knew too much, teaches a wonderful lesson to all of us.
At every stage in our lives, we do worry about our future. What will be tomorrow like?
Will the new dawn bring fresh hopes or will it bring bitter tears?
Will my efforts to succeed find fruition?
Many questions do haunt us.
What if we could muster the courage to face these questions with a mere phrase..Que Sera Sera.
This post is a part of Blogging from A-Z April Challenge.
The Blogging from A to Z April Challenge was first held in 2010. The challenge is that we have to post every day of April, except on the four Sundays. April 1st is a theme with letter A, 2nd with letter B and so on till April 30th which will be Z themed. My theme is #Learning Everyday, I post about new random things every day.
Friday, April 18, 2014
P is for Portraiture
Portraiture is the art of creating portraits. Portraits can
be done in Oil, Acrylic, Pencil, pastels, Charcoals etc.
I also create portraits. I do it mainly using pencil and
Charcoal.
Portraits were commissioned by only the elite centuries
back. Later on middle classes also
warmed up to the idea of having the portraits of their loved ones done. However,
with the advent of photography, the mad craze for creating oil portraits have
come down. Still art lovers cherish being the proud owners of their own
portraits.
There are many methods to create portraits like live
portraiture where the subject models for the artist the entire time he sketches.
This was the method used in olden times. Now artists mainly work using a clear
photo of the client, which helps them create a realistic portrait.
I work from photographs. I started it by gifting friends on
their birthdays and recently started doing commissioned portraits when the
demands increased.
If you are interested in learning portraiture, there are
detailed courses online. Youtube has a number of tutorials that teach
portraiture in detail.
Sharing one such video. Go to the side links and you can find many more.
Sharing a few of the portraits of my creation.
Pencil Portait |
Charcoal portrait |
Pencil Portrait |
Charcoal portrait |
This post is a part of Blogging from A-Z April Challenge.
The Blogging from A to Z April Challenge was first held in 2010. The challenge is that we have to post every day of April, except on the four Sundays. April 1st is a theme with letter A, 2nd with letter B and so on till April 30th which will be Z themed. My theme is #Learning Everyday, I post about new random things every day.
Thursday, April 17, 2014
O is for Oil Lamps
A humble oil lamp burning steadily inside my prayer room is
symbolic of my faith and the peace I seek.
By lighting it, I become one with the millions who believe in the
sanctity of fire and light.
We Hindus, start the day with a morning prayer by lighting an
oil lamp at dawn, the magical hour that has a tinge of joy and pining, melancholy
and expectations. The lamp effectively
brightens up my world while the majestic sun begins its journey of yet another eventful
day.
I love visiting temples during twilight. The dancing flames
of the oil lamps inside the inner sanctum of the temple create an ambiance of
tranquility and the image of the deity becomes a peaceful presence that touches
the very center of my soul.
A temple lit with oil lamps during festival (Image Source) |
More than just light, the oil lamp is a powerful space
cleanser. Lighting an oil lamp clears
the non-physical dirt or negative energy that collects from emotions and
negative fields.
A quarrel leaves many negative vibes in the form of anger
and frustration in a room long after it is over. In historic places, you can
often feel the effects of violence even centuries later. The presence of electronic
devices like television also creates negative vibrations in a room. This is the reason
why experts advice couples to remove electronic gadgets from their bedroom.
Incense sticks ( Image Source) |
Ghee (or clarified butter) lamps are the best space cleansers ever. When you light an oil lamp, even for an hour, it lightens the vibrations and disperses most of the negativity.
Burning an incense stick or agarbattis together with an oil lamp is a pleasant way of raising the positive vibrations; it is protective as well as cleansing.
Use camphor when you require a thorough cleansing. Camphor is powerful and hence should not be used more than once a day.
Let us not forget that we are spiritual beings on a human journey. May these ancient traditions help us in creating a more fulfilling life.
Image Source |
This post is a part of Blogging from A-Z April Challenge.
The Blogging from A to Z April Challenge was first held in 2010. The challenge is that we have to post every day of April, except on the four Sundays. April 1st is a theme with letter A, 2nd with letter B and so on till April 30th which will be Z themed. My theme is #Learning Everyday, I post about new random things every day.
Wednesday, April 16, 2014
N is for Name
Says Juliet in Shakespeare’s famous play Romeo
and Juliet.
I beg to differ. A name is important. It gives
identity to the person, institution or thing.
The moment one mentions the name of my son, my
face lits up with a smile and my heart grows fonder. Sadness overwhelms me, when
someone speaks about a loved one I lost. Anger swells in my whole being when I
hear about that one person whom I have come to hate. Nostalgia flies in when
someone talks about my alma mater.
What does that mean?!!...Names do matter.
We are able to conjure up a mental image only
if we can associate it with a name.
From what I have come to understand, our destinies too are determined by the name we are given. We become what the name suggests we are.
From what I have come to understand, our destinies too are determined by the name we are given. We become what the name suggests we are.
That explains the crazy drive of celebrities
who change their name after consultation with numerologists.
That explains why would-be-parents spends hours
over the internet searching for names for their unborn child.
As for Juliet, she didn’t need a name for Romeo. She was obsessed with him and her every thought began and ended on him. What use did she have for a name?
See this video to understand the importance of
a name according to numerology.
While writing this post, I too researched on my
name. This is the result.
Want to check what your name means? Click HERE |
Here is another result from another similar site.
The source of this result is HERE..
Come on, tell me what you think...
This post is a part of Blogging from A-Z April Challenge.
The Blogging from A to Z April Challenge was first held in 2010. The challenge is that we have to post every day of April, except on the four Sundays. April 1st is a theme with letter A, 2nd with letter B and so on till April 30th which will be Z themed. My theme is #Learning Everyday, I post about new random things every day.
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